A Jem of a Secret Podcast

A Jem of a Secret Podcast:Can Drag Queens fall in love Part 2

​Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday star in a long conversation about love and relationships! This is the second part, so make sure to listen to the last episode first!

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Can drag queens fall in love?

Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday star in a long conversation about love and relationships!

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Get these darn kids off my lawn

Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecrets talk about current events and what it means to age with drag. 

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Election Results Continued

Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecrets do a deeper dive into the election results. In the last episode you hear their predictions. In this episode, you hear how they feel now. 

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Election Episode

Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecret take you through a two day series about the election. Tune in to hear their thoughts and impressions!

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: True Crime - The Murder of William Desmond Taylor

This week, Donatella and Coco open their ears to the storytelling of Shandi Evans, one of Portland's premier drag artists. In this episode of True Crime, Shandi Evans explains the Murder of William Desmond Taylor. As always, CONTENT WARNING. 

 

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: True Crime - The Disappearance and Murder of Marco McMillian

Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecrets take you on another path down the road to a crime where the Gay Panic defense was used. Taken from the LGBTBAR.ORG:

Traditionally, the LGBTQ+ “panic” defense has been used in three ways to mitigate a case of murder to manslaughter or justified homicide.

• Defense of insanity or diminished capacity: The defendant alleges that a sexual proposition by the victim – due to their sexual orientation or gender identity – triggered a nervous breakdown in the defendant, causing an LGBTQ+ “panic.” This defense is based on an outdated psychological term, “gay panic disorder”, which was debunked by the American Psychiatric Association and removed from the DSM in 1973. Sadly, while the medical field has evolved with our increasingly just society, the legal field has yet to catch up.
• Defense of provocation: The defense of provocation allows a defendant to argue that the victim’s proposition, sometimes termed a “non-violent sexual advance,” was sufficiently “provocative” to induce the defendant to kill the victim. Defendants claiming a “provocative” advance stigmatize behavior which, on its own, is not illegal or harmful, but is only considered “provocative” when it comes from an LGBTQ+ individual.
• Defense of self-defense: Defendants claim they believed that the victim, because of their sexual orientation or gender identity/expression, was about to cause the defendant serious bodily harm. This defense is offensive and harmful because it argues that a person’s gender or sexual identity makes them more of a threat to safety. In addition, LGBTQ+ “panic” is often employed to justify violence when the victim’s behavior falls short of the serious bodily harm standard, or the defendant used a greater amount of force than reasonably necessary to avoid danger, such as using weapons when their attacker was unarmed.

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: True Crime - The Murder of Mercedes Williamson and The Murder of Mesha Caldwell

Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday are venturing into a month of True Crime for the Holiday season. Since this is a Drag Queen ran podcast, we're going to focus on queer themes and hopefully bring some awareness to some resolved and unresolved cases. 

A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Coming Out Part 5

Coco Jem Holiday, Autumn Rainz Hart, Donatella Mysecrets and DJ Queer Cub explore the final chapter of coming out of the closet. In this episode, the hosts encourage you to talk about your story on our website which is www.ajemofasecretpodcast.com

Coming Out Part 4

Touche Douche shares her coming out story and what it entails. Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday leave you with this fourth and final part to the series of coming out of the closet.