Episodes

Thursday Dec 17, 2020
Thursday Dec 17, 2020
Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday decide to embark on a journey of love again with this small mini-series about the KINDS of relationships we've been through. We also give you some tips and tricks on how to be better!

Thursday Dec 10, 2020
A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Season 13 RuVeal and Reactions!
Thursday Dec 10, 2020
Thursday Dec 10, 2020
Donatlla Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday dive into the RuPaul's Drag Race fandom and talk about the S13 Cast RuVeals.

Thursday Dec 03, 2020
A Jem of a Secret Podcast:Can Drag Queens fall in love Part 2
Thursday Dec 03, 2020
Thursday Dec 03, 2020
Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday star in a long conversation about love and relationships! This is the second part, so make sure to listen to the last episode first!

Thursday Nov 26, 2020
A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Can drag queens fall in love?
Thursday Nov 26, 2020
Thursday Nov 26, 2020
Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday star in a long conversation about love and relationships!

Thursday Nov 19, 2020
A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Get these darn kids off my lawn
Thursday Nov 19, 2020
Thursday Nov 19, 2020
Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecrets talk about current events and what it means to age with drag.

Thursday Nov 12, 2020
A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Election Results Continued
Thursday Nov 12, 2020
Thursday Nov 12, 2020
Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecrets do a deeper dive into the election results. In the last episode you hear their predictions. In this episode, you hear how they feel now.

Thursday Nov 05, 2020
A Jem of a Secret Podcast: Election Episode
Thursday Nov 05, 2020
Thursday Nov 05, 2020
Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecret take you through a two day series about the election. Tune in to hear their thoughts and impressions!

Thursday Oct 29, 2020
A Jem of a Secret Podcast: True Crime - The Murder of William Desmond Taylor
Thursday Oct 29, 2020
Thursday Oct 29, 2020
This week, Donatella and Coco open their ears to the storytelling of Shandi Evans, one of Portland's premier drag artists. In this episode of True Crime, Shandi Evans explains the Murder of William Desmond Taylor. As always, CONTENT WARNING.

Thursday Oct 22, 2020
Thursday Oct 22, 2020
Coco Jem Holiday and Donatella Mysecrets take you on another path down the road to a crime where the Gay Panic defense was used. Taken from the LGBTBAR.ORG:
Traditionally, the LGBTQ+ “panic” defense has been used in three ways to mitigate a case of murder to manslaughter or justified homicide.
- Defense of insanity or diminished capacity: The defendant alleges that a sexual proposition by the victim – due to their sexual orientation or gender identity – triggered a nervous breakdown in the defendant, causing an LGBTQ+ “panic.” This defense is based on an outdated psychological term, “gay panic disorder”, which was debunked by the American Psychiatric Association and removed from the DSM in 1973. Sadly, while the medical field has evolved with our increasingly just society, the legal field has yet to catch up.
- Defense of provocation: The defense of provocation allows a defendant to argue that the victim’s proposition, sometimes termed a “non-violent sexual advance,” was sufficiently “provocative” to induce the defendant to kill the victim. Defendants claiming a “provocative” advance stigmatize behavior which, on its own, is not illegal or harmful, but is only considered “provocative” when it comes from an LGBTQ+ individual.
- Defense of self-defense: Defendants claim they believed that the victim, because of their sexual orientation or gender identity/expression, was about to cause the defendant serious bodily harm. This defense is offensive and harmful because it argues that a person’s gender or sexual identity makes them more of a threat to safety. In addition, LGBTQ+ “panic” is often employed to justify violence when the victim’s behavior falls short of the serious bodily harm standard, or the defendant used a greater amount of force than reasonably necessary to avoid danger, such as using weapons when their attacker was unarmed.

Thursday Oct 15, 2020
Thursday Oct 15, 2020
Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday are venturing into a month of True Crime for the Holiday season. Since this is a Drag Queen ran podcast, we're going to focus on queer themes and hopefully bring some awareness to some resolved and unresolved cases.